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It’s a lean Christmas

December 23, 2009

It is a well known fact that the economy is in the dumps right now.  Gas prices hit record since-the-80′s highs, real estate sales and prices are down, commodity prices are creeping up and we have been no exception for experiencing it.  Since my mother and father divorced, I’ve always had an enjoyable time (read: not) of shuffling back and forth for the holidays, trying to fit in my schedule with everyone else’s: step parents and their kids, extended families, boyfriend/husband’s family… it’s not something I ever look forward to because someone’s feelings are going to be hurt and I just can’t please everyone.  In the past couple of years I’ve just let everyone tell me what they want me to do and I’d find a way to work around it.  The older I get and the less flexible my life has become, the less I can make my obligations and everyone else satisfied.

Continuing, traveling to all of these places requires the purchase of gifts.  Now, while shuttling back and forth between the places and the resultant drama that preceeds and follows are not things I enjoy in the least, I do love giving presents.  The anticipation when the gifts are piled under the tree, excitement when they’re passed around, the studying of the wrapping and finally the smile on people’s faces when they have seen what was given.  The only problem is the economy.  My mother and father have both remarried, and with the new step mother or father comes their kids.  Now while the opportunity to give more presents isn’t daunting, the cost of such things are.  In the past, I’ve just charged whatever I was going to give and pay it off throughout the next half of the following year, but this year I’ve lived a bit leaner than others.  I’ve paid off a good deal of revolving credit accounts and racked up a bit of savings in the meantime.  The thought of charging stuff after all that hard work didn’t sound great to me, so this year I decided to only get what I could afford, or afford to make.  This year is the year of the Industrious, Creative, Crafty Heather that comes out in a pinch.  Here are some things that I’ve made for gifts:

The bag on the left was for my stepmom Carol.  The one on the right was for her son’s wife, Amy.  They’re floppy reversible totes that are ideal for small grocery shopping trips, gym bags or whatever else might be handy for having a shoulder strap bag.  There is a pocket on the inside that is big enough for a phone, keys or anything that might need to be separated from the main contents.

Soap making is a new thing I am trying, and so far it’s fun but very messy.  Above is a new concoction that I created for my stepmother’s daughter and her wife.  These soaps are made of animal free glycerin and human grade food ingredients.  I call them “Chocolate Pomegranate Cinnamon Tart Soaps.”  I haven’t actually used them in the shower like they are intended, but they were ok when I used them to wash my hands.  Hopefully Debbie and Betsy will be able to get good use out of them and give me decent feedback on what I need to improve them.

This is for my grandmother from Mexico.  The last time she came to visit, she came to my house for a taco dinner and kept telling my mom that she liked my paintings.  I figured I could make one up pretty quickly for her to take back to Mexico.  It’s not finished yet as of this post – I need to refine the hands a bit with the shadowing and length, but as I probably won’t repost a finished image, here it is unfinished.  Perhaps in the next post I will, as I need to finish up some other homemade gifts for people that will receive them for Christmas.

I’m hoping that over Christmas break I’ll have more time to work on some crafts that I’ve had piling up – reconning some clothes, making new clothes, a laptop sleeve I’ve needed recently and some Nintendo coasters for a friend out in California.  I just have to remember to wake up before 11:00am.

For my sanity

May 19, 2009

I haven’t blogged in awhile, mostly because no one cares about reading them and I feel like blogs tend to be a bit on the braggy side.  I suppose that’s what this is about, but in my mind I’m doing it to list off the projects and goals that I’ve set and completed.

Since derby has taken up a good chunk of my time, I haven’t had much time to devote to photography.  There’s also another reason why but I don’t feel like talking about it right now since I’m still pretty hurt about that.  Anyway I’ve had a few jobs here and there but I’ve not really talked about them.  I’ve got a few scheduled for the spring and summer, and if I can get time to redo my website to something flashier (I despise Flash websites but apparently it looks more “professional”) I’ll probably try to do that.

Roller derby is kind of my new thing right now.  It’s a lot of fun, the girls are wonderful.  I like that I can have conversation with women and it not be about kids all the time.  I kind of fear women these days because everyone I know that has kids wants to just blah blah blah about them and since I don’t have them, I’d really rather talk about something else.  A lot of the derby girls are mothers, with full time jobs, and they still manage to kick ass on the track every week several times a day.  They’re great role models and they’re very down to earth – my kind of people.

Now on to the things that have been occupying my non-derby time.  Since I’ve got knee troubles, I’ve been trying to use my craftiness more instead of going bike riding and such.  I’ve been doing little projects so far just to build up my confidence.  It’s possible that if I can get the effort going and the time that I might set up an Etsy shop and sell some things through LaBellaFlor.com, but that’ll be a little down the road I think.  I’ve got a few friends right now that are pregnant and I am going to make little baby trinkets for them.

Here’s what I’ve completed:

The first thing that I’ve done in this flurry of creation is an Infinity Dress.  It’s basically a circle skirt with two long and wide strips of fabric that is sewn onto the front of the skirt and then tied in any fashion that you choose.  There are millions of ways to tie this thing, but without a guide I have no clue.  I have a second idea for this and it’s a bit closer to the version that American Apparel sells.  On that version there is a bodice sewn on the skirt and the long strips are then connected to that.  It makes hiding skin on the torso a bit easier and you can use it as a dress, skirt or shirt much easier than the original Infinity.

Second thing on the list is the beginning of the master bathroom remodel.  When we bought our house, it was severely under market value.  In addition, we were successfully able to talk them down another $10,000.  Now with a house that low in price, it’s expected that there would be a little damage to some things or other things not right or just ugly.  Luckily there weren’t too many things wrong with ours, the exception being permanent discoloration of the vinyl flooring in several rooms due to rugs.  The master bathroom has this issue, but also has no color on the walls and a plain-jane oak-laminate vanity.  Menards was having a sale on vanities and tops, so a few months ago we purchased an unfinished oak vanity and a granite/silkstone sink top.  I spent a couple of days staining the vanity with a mahogany color that is both romantic and warm.  The new vanity has pull out drawers now so that I might be able to remove the little one I have in there for makeup and other essentials.  Next is ceramic tile and a new coat of paint.

The third thing that I’ve completed is another circle skirt for roller derby.  I really only have one skirt that I use and it’s from when I was in high school.  It’s a bit long and I don’t really want to hem it shorter, so I just made a different one from some corduroy material I had sitting around.  It looks alright with my referee shirt, but I was playing around with it and it looks pretty neat with some other clothes I have.  Dual duty!

Finally the last thing I’ve completed is the standard window curtain.  Andy and I went to Ikea not too long ago and I saw this wonderful fabric there and had to buy it.  I would like to make a business card holder and maybe a tote bag out of the remnants, but for now I’ve made a curtain for our kitchen window.  Before it was a horrible plain brown curtain from Walmart (I had to get something different from the stupid plaid one before in a hurry!)

and now it’s a fun gunmetal grey pattern.  This will look sweet when we paint the kitchen olive and put tiles as a back splash above the cabinets.

Speaking of kitchen, another project I’d love to try is painting the counter tops.  This *sounds* like a horrible idea, but I’ve found a tutorial that makes it look exactly like marble for about an 1/8th of the cost.

So now on my plate are more clothes (I’ve got a few dresses in the works), messenger bags, a few more totes/purses and the aforementioned baby stuff.  House improvements, planting trees, making more coasters, reupholstering the chaise lounge I bought from CraigsList and I hope to finish my new skate bag before try-outs in the summer.

I went to physical therapy

October 10, 2008

and all I got was this crappy knee.

Dodgeball!

January 18, 2008

We just got back from playing almost an hour’s worth of dodgeball at Lifetime Fitness. So much fun! I forgot how strenuous it is, I was so out of breath. I still remember how to play though, several games I was the very last one or one of two left standing. It’s nice to be complimented from the other team about my ability. I don’t feel so fat and out of shape then. :)

Random goings on

December 12, 2007

I haven’t blogged in awhile, but mostly that’s because I’m crushingly busy.

Photography
I’m pretty sure I didn’t post any pictures of the wedding I flew out to California for.  I had lots of fun out there with Teresa and Jase (and extraneously Jenny and Steve) and it was good for me to photograph the days up to and after the ceremony/party.  We even got to do a Trash The Dress on the coast which was really good practice and a ton of fun.

I think weddings will always be a learning experience for me because there are so many different ways that things can play out and how people act that it’s almost impossible to plan for the same type of picture for everyone.  You can always try, but sometimes those differences make a better picture.

I tried a new model in Mirinda in October.  We learned that a bright sunset does not go well with shadows and sun in the eyes, but the sky color is killer with the polarizer in the right place.  We also tried some tricks with the studio, and I’ve gotten a different experience with Photoshop editing with those shots.

I spent nearly 24 hours photographing the birth of my first cousin once removed in November.  I had not yet experienced a live birth so it was both a great experience as a photographer and again as a cousin, friend and future potential mommy-ness (!!).  Soon I’ll get to take photos of the new baby at home settled in.

Last weekend (December 8th) I had a photo session with Leslie.  We did her maternity photos.  I can’t stress enough how much I love working with this girl, and not just because I’m trying to be nice.  She is so fun and even though she “works it” for the camera, she has a great imagination and an artist’s eye.  I think part of it is that she knows what looks good, but then playfully tries new poses to mix it up.  I rarely ever have to point out poses for her or to have her repeat a pose for long.  We had some excellent shots and I’m really excited to edit them.  With her permission I will repost the ones she OKs.

Work
Same crap I will always talk about.  Blackboard is always acting like a big baby and although I’ve been the admin for 2 years on it, sometimes it just doesn’t make any sense to me.  It feels like I’m lost and the fact that it is constantly going down or screwing up and on top of that support is close to nil, it makes me just want to scratch my eyes out.  One day everything will be perfect but I’m not going to hold my breath for that day.  Also, NOT HAPPY I have to work over the entire holiday break.  Please please can I get out of it?  :(

Life
I have been putting my Palm to good use and put a calorie tracker on it.  I have to either save the packaging for everything I eat or find it online to put in all the nutrients.  It’s helpful that it also tracks my workouts and mood so that I can get a good overall picture of my weight loss goals.  Which brings me to the last topic of

Wedding Planning
I finally bought the dress.  I really didn’t want to buy it from Posie Patch which I have outlined previously, but I had no choice.  I did give other bridal shops a chance but either nothing had everything I wanted, it just wasn’t my style or it was way out of my price range.  I don’t think I’ll ever have a dress that is 100% perfect and I can find a few faults with this one, but overall it has everything I asked for (p.s. *this* girl isn’t having a white wedding).

I agonized over getting the dress size I can wear right now, or getting the smaller size in anticipation of my weight loss.  After what felt like 15 minutes I finally let Mirinda talk me into the smaller one.  I feel like if I keep up with my calorie counter and going to the gym 4 times a week like I have been, I should be down to my high school weight by February.

Within the last month we’ve narrowed our guest list, finalized the invitations we wanted, bought the dress, planned and bought our honeymoon and smaller things on our to-do list.  Well, whether Andy admits it or not, I pretty much do all the planning and then ask for his opinion.  Our opinions are pretty much the same so it’s usually ok, but really…  Sometimes I feel like I just want to have the parents, brothers, sisters, Chata and Andy be the only ones with all the stress over money and crap that goes on (no offense to any friends not mentioned).  But then I think about how friends and family really shape who you are as a person, and I would love to have them all around us having a good time.

It seems like we’re having a much bigger wedding than we intially wanted, so we may or may not pare down the wedding party and total guests invited.  I guess it just depends on how we feel in the next month or two.  Honestly if we do, it’s not a slight on anyone, it’s just that we are well aware on how much a wedding costs and to put the burden of gifts,  bridesmaids’ dresses and groomsmen tuxes on people sometimes seems a little unfair.  Mirinda tries to convince me that it is MY wedding and I can do what I want, but you all know me, I aim to please.  :)

Well I guess that’s all.  Look for a Year in Pictures whenever I can get another chance to settle down for a blog again.  Happy holidays everyone.

Maia Isabelle Villegas

November 7, 2007

born November 07, 2007 at 1:24pm, 7 lbs 8.6 oz, 21″ long

Sorry for the newborn baby butt, best full length picture I’ve got.

telanovelas are strange

November 6, 2007

I’m staying the night with chata in the hospital tonght. her little brother was here earlier and I found myself in the precarious position of having to entertain a 6 year old child that I could not understand. somehow I mangled enough spanish to keep him quiet and busy. I took my palm and took pictures of him and let him draw on himself and showed him fotos de mis gatos y perra. my cousin is watching some spanish sitcom on univision right now and I’m pretty much lost. they have a monitor on her baby so I can hear really loud heartbeats until she moves away. maia sometimes flops around so fast that you can hear a whooshing sound like someone blowing on a microphone really loudly.I think I’m going to try to get some sleep while her other show is on. it looks weird. updates on babies periodically as permitted.

I know you guys don’t care, but I’m going to write about it anyway.  Karla was forced to give birth to her daughter, Juliette, because blood flow through the umbilical cord stopped.  She was born at 11 oz.  Doctors didn’t think Juliette would be able to have a breathing tube inserted because she was too tiny, but apparently the very smallest tube that is manufactured was able to be inserted and she is breathing fine with it.  Her heart is beating and I guess she’s just trying to live right now.  It’s a wait and see game for the next 48 hours to see if her liver and kidneys will function on their own.

edit:  I didn’t have time to edit these pics but I grabbed them last week.  Here’s Karla and Quincy pre-birth.

Andy and I were talking about me advertising on Clear Channel’s website with a banner ad.  I thought the banner should say “OhHeather.com, not porn, just pix!”  I’d probably get the traffic!

ouch

June 9, 2007

Andy and I just got back from walking for an hour at the Carmel version of Relay for Life.  My legs are on fire.

It doesn’t help that for an hour and a half before we (Andy, Joe and I) rode our bikes all around Westfield up to Cool Creek Park and rode up and down the hills of the trails.

I guess I worked off that Ritter’s ice cream and Big Hoffa’s BBQ.

Also, bag pipe music brings tears to my eyes.

The good and the bad

June 4, 2007

The good:  Joe moved back to Westfield yesterday.  Yay.

The bad:  My stepbrother’s wife’s water broke on Sunday evening.  She’s only 26 weeks along. We haven’t heard anything since she was supposed to be transferred to the IU Med Center, so if anyone’s interested I can update accordingly.